In today’s world, our children’s challenges are unparalleled to those we experienced growing up. With the influence of social media and constant connectivity through texting, the pressures and dangers our kids encounter are magnified exponentially. As a result, we can no longer afford to view bullying as a rite of passage or dismiss harmful behavior with the excuse that “kids will be kids.”

Every day brings tragic events that shatter families and plunge communities into despair. As a mother who has witnessed her own teenager battle thoughts of self-harm, I can attest to the profound toll it takes on both the individual and their loved ones. My daughter carries a genetic predisposition to mental illness, and it’s heart-wrenching to watch her struggle to heal while society imposes labels on her. Yet, genetics is only part of the picture; she has also endured several traumatic events in her short life. The regret of not recognizing the signs sooner weighs heavily on me, but I’m thankful that my daughter is still here with me a privilege not every parent can claim. It’s a reminder of the urgent need for greater awareness, empathy, and support for those grappling with mental health challenges.

Amidst the turmoil of dealing with a child’s mental health challenges, there’s often an unfortunate tendency to lay blame squarely on parents’ shoulders, as if they bear sole responsibility for their child’s struggles. Moms, in particular, tend to face harsh judgment when their children don’t fit into societal norms. This only serves to stigmatize mental illness further. I’ve experienced firsthand the pain of losing friends and even family members because they couldn’t understand or accept how we, as a family, chose to address our daughter’s mental health issues. Relatives have told me that my daughter is simply a “bad kid” who doesn’t know how to behave. I’ve had my parents dismiss my efforts as a “pity party” when I shared our journey on social media, celebrating the progress our daughter made after years of fighting for her to receive the help she needed. These experiences highlight the need for greater empathy and understanding, rather than judgment and stigma when it comes to mental health struggles within families. We need mental health support!

The reality of mental health challenges is far more intricate than meets the eye. The distress signals are sometimes skillfully hidden, leaving parents feeling isolated and powerless. Even when pleas for assistance are voiced, the scarcity of accessible resources often presents an insurmountable barrier. Mental health issues are frequently pushed to the sidelines, viewed as a secondary concern rather than the urgent priority they genuinely are. Many families face the overwhelming financial strain of seeking treatment, with exorbitant costs placing life-saving care out of their reach. It’s a tragic paradox: mental health support tends to become available only when situations escalate to crisis levels, leaving families questioning why necessary support wasn’t accessible earlier in their journey.

In my journey, I’ve experienced a stark contrast in available resources once substance abuse became part of the equation. Suddenly, doors that were once shut tight swung open, providing the comprehensive care my daughter urgently required. However, the struggle didn’t end there. Mental health support is an ongoing necessity, demanding consistent therapy and unwavering attention to guarantee enduring recovery.

The stark truth is that the system is failing our children. We can no longer turn a blind eye to the glaring gaps in mental health care, nor can we allow stigma and misunderstandings to dictate our response. It’s high time for action. Governments must prioritize mental health as a fundamental facet of public health, ensuring that resources are readily accessible to all who require them. Only then can we bridge the divide and offer the support and treatment individuals and families desperately need.

As a society, we owe it to our children to provide the support and care they deserve. Let us stand together, advocating for change and championing mental health awareness. Our children’s lives depend on it.


As moms, we play a crucial role as our children’s voices and strongest advocates. If you have doubts about your child’s success in public school, consider enrolling them in virtual schooling or homeschooling. There are numerous alternatives to ensure their educational and social needs are met. Activities like church groups, sports teams, local theater programs, and events at the library offer fantastic opportunities for them to engage and thrive outside traditional school settings. It’s about finding the right fit and nurturing their growth in all aspects of life.

It’s imperative that we prioritize mental health support well before it escalates to the point of hospitalization or requiring ambulatory assistance. We must actively work to erase the stigma surrounding discussions about mental health problems. When moms lead by example and are open about mental health challenges, it creates a safe space for our children to approach us with their own struggles. By fostering open communication and tackling mental health issues proactively, we can help ensure the well-being of our families and communities.


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